Freeflow 2

Disclaimer: This is an honest freeflow because I have a lot of thoughts swirling around in this head of mine, but they aren't quite organized. Forgive me for the jumbled space below, but that's what freeflow entries are for...

Okay, world. I had to take a little hiatus, because like it says in the previous post, I had to get back on track with my purpose. Well, I'm back, and so much has happened that it's going to take several new entries to work this out. First of all, I've decided not to asterisk-censor my profanity anymore. Some say people use profanity because they don't know how to express themselves. To that I say, bullshit. Now fellas, I realize this entry is going to turn you completely off in the next line, but realize that I'm an open-minded person, and be patient with me. Read until the end.

Niggas ain't shit.

That being said, I'm not one of those hands-on-your-hip, neck rolling, independent-to-prove-a-point, feminist-til-i-die (alone) type women. But for the purposes of this composition, I must take on some of that point of view. Remember not too long ago when I asked if cupid was complacent? Well, I don't think so. I think he's just hanging out with the wrong crowd right now. A lot of drama unfolded this weekend, and all of the events brought me to the same conclusion. Niggas ain't shit. But why? I can't just make a claim and not back it up with substantial evidence, so here we go.

WHY CHEAT??? If you're not getting what you want out of the relationship, let her know! Give her a chance to fix it, and if it still doesn't work out, then leave! Don't hang around stringing people along. It's going to be painful on some level, so make it clean, quick rather than making both of you suffer slowly.

WHY LIE??? You got caught, so give it up! At least have the honesty to tell the girl the truth. And don't spit that bullshit about you don't want to hurt her, because no matter what you do, you already did. Lying is an insult to me. It's basically saying: "You're too stupid to know the truth, so I can just sell you a wolf ticket, and you'll take it. Not to mention, you believe everything I say anyway." BULLshit. In my eyes, under the rarest of circumstances, cheating could possibly, maybe, almost be forgiven. But lying...that's a crime that I hope you drop the soap for.

WHY STEAL??? Would you steal merchandise just for the hell of it? Ok, those of you who answered no, why would you steal a girl's time? That's something she can never get back, so if you ain't about shit and she is, then let her know what's up. If she chooses to stay, fine. If she chooses to leave, respect that, but let her make an informed decision. Like Lil Wayne says, "informate" the girl.

Now, fellas, I know you all huffing and puffing by now, but tell me that you, or someone you know, does not enagage in the aforementioned activities? Wait, stop trying to argue for a second...just think about it. Right. That's what I thought. I'm not saying females are perfect, because we are NOT, by any means, but damn, give us some more credit. Granted, now is not the time to be on love lockdown, but certain principles of respect still apply here. Each one of the above paragraphs is a way to disrespect your woman, piss her off to the highest of pisstivity, and most likely lose her. Not to mention, you mess it up for the next brotha 'cause women do know how to hold a grudge. Ask R. Kelly. (when a woman's fed up) Pay attention to my disclaimer, because this is just how I'm feeling at this particular moment. Tomorrow I might think niggas are the greatest, although I doubt it, because niggas ain't shit. Real men are. But that's a whole 'nother subject. And I'm not saying this applies to all men, but if you felt a little defensive just now, then I'm probably talking to you.

Hell, I don't know, I could just be feeling for some of my closest girls who got dogged out this weekend. Let me know, but until someone convinces me otherwise...

...Niggas ain't shit.